mouss-e: somepinkfluffy-dinosaur: ‎”THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. it may save a life.) Reblog this!   It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such asituation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world. THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG…FYI - Through a rapist’s eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.6] Number three is public restrooms.7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.———————————————————————————————————————————-POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.  2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow andarmpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told ourinstructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without usingmuch pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feellittle silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.——————————————————————————————————————————-FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some, where you will go “hmm I must remember that” After reading forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/orpurse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.  5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may behiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)  6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.   Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.If u have a heart or compassion reblog this post.‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.  REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOWATLEAST PEOPLES WILL KNOW WATS GOIN IN THIS WORLD.So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.I hope you all will Reblog. Lets See how many of you really care for this. DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT NOT REBLOGGING THIS! IT COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.

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somepinkfluffy-dinosaur:

‎”THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. it may save a life.) Reblog this!

  
It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such a
situation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world. THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG…

FYI - Through a rapist’s eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:



1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.
They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

———————————————————————————————————————————-

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:


1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:
can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

 
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would 
not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and
armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our
instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using
much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel
little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

——————————————————————————————————————————-

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some, where you will go “hmm I must remember that” After reading forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.


1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or
purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.
 

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be
hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .
b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
 

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
  

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.


If u have a heart or compassion reblog this post.
‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

 
REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW
ATLEAST PEOPLES WILL KNOW WATS GOIN IN THIS WORLD.
So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.
I hope you all will Reblog. Lets See how many of you really care for this.

DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT NOT REBLOGGING THIS! IT COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.

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Ohemgee, anyone know where this is???

Ohemgee, anyone know where this is???

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doucheshaming: doucheshaming: To counter this photo and this post. You’re welcome.  Spread your love and your legs! (if you want) because you can do both, or none, or whatever the heck you want! it’s your choice and your choice alone to make. 

doucheshaming:

doucheshaming:

To counter this photo and this post.

You’re welcome. 

Spread your love and your legs! (if you want) because you can do both, or none, or whatever the heck you want! it’s your choice and your choice alone to make. 

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Civil marriage is a civil right and a matter of civil law. The NAACP’s support for marriage equality is deeply rooted in the Fourteenth Amendment of the United States Constitution and equal protection of all people…

NAACP President Benjamin Todd Jealous, as

…the NAACP passed a resolution Saturday endorsing same-sex marriage as a civil right and opposing any efforts “to codify discrimination or hatred into the law.”

more.

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slaterwashere:

Toxic Sex Toys with Jennifer Pritchett

Part PSA, part narrative, Jennifer Pritchett, owner of The Smitten Kitten, talks about her discovery and exploration of toxic sex toys. smittenkittenonline.com
I feel like I could blog all day long about what not to allow in and around your genitals, with examples from porn blogs (especially kink blogs!) all over Tumblr. I get that something may be hot in fantasy but being involved in kink also means knowing what shouldn’t be played out in reality. Please do some research or ask questions from those who can provide information on toy materials. If your partner/s pressure you into using potentially dangerous toys or lubes (jelly toys, almost anything scented/flavored, glycerin lubes, just to name a few) know that they do not give a shit about your emotional or physical health, same goes for anyone who pressures you into anything sexually.
This is really important! Watch this video - be careful and conscious about what you’re using! 

I shop here all the time, a wonderful place!

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sexreeducated: Masturbation for Cis-Men Most men learned early on that touching their penis is pleasurable. They may begin by rubbing it against things that feel good (like pillows and sheets) or simply begin stroking it - some men prefer additional lubrication some prefer a dry hand. The thing with hand jobs is that other than the fact that having another person perform a hand job on them, no one will ever do a hand job on a guy as good as they could do themselves. We don’t usually speak in generalities here but this seems to be a universal phenomenon. So, for all you women out there the best way to learn to do a great hand job on your man is to watch what he does to himself. There are so many nuances from person to person that it’s unimaginable. Hand position varies widely, along with speed, angle, and motion. Some prefer to stand up, some want to sit, some enjoy reclining. Position may depend on the situation. The main thing we discovered about developing a “How To Male Masturbate” is that we simply cannot include all of the techniques we came across. Men are much more socialized towards their penises than women have been towards their vulvas for many, many years. It seems that because men learn to handle their penises to urinate and the penis is a sign of virility, male masturbation has been more reinforced in our culture than female masturbation. Therefore, they’ve had A LOT of time to develop hundreds of ways to masturbate. So, other than the basics we’ll just include a few trends here and let you personally explore the rest of them on your own… Knowing the lay of the land is important. Anatomy of the penis: Glans: The head of the penis Frenulum: The underside of the glans; ** the most sensitive part Shaft: The length of the penis Perineum: The area between the anus and the testicles Testicles: Where sperm is made and stored for ejaculation. To lube or not to lube? Try it both ways and see what you like. Most men begin experimenting early on with hand lotion and soap in the shower. Do yourself a favor and graduate to one of the many amazing lubes out there. Maximus is a great thick lube for jerking off. Masturbation Techniques Full, single hand Using a single fist is the most basic male masturbation technique. Simply wrap one entire fist around the shaft of the penis and begin stroking up and down. Two Fists Together This works especially well on men who have more length. Wrap both fists around the shaft and stroke up and down. Two Fists Alternating This variation used each hand one at a time but allows you to alternate. You can even experiment with one fist going up and the other down. Two Finger Method Many men who prefer to focus their stroking on the glans (head) of the penis prefer this method. Using just the thumb, pointer and ring finger from one hand rub the head of the penis vigorously. Thumb and Finger Rings Make little circles with your thumbs and ring fingers from both hands. Encircle around the penis and stroke up and down. Male Masturbators There are a great many different objects that you can thrust your penis into that will simulate penetrative intercourse. This can vary from toilet paper rolls to fruit (watermelon or cantaloupe). Other foods like the infamous apple pie from the movie “American Pie”. Rest assured that if you can think of it, it’s been done. A slightly cleaner option is one of the many male masturbation toys on the market now. Everything from the popular Head Honcho to the much-loved Fleshlight has been quite a hit with men when it comes to vaginal simulation. Masturbation Variations Intensify the experience by adding anal or prostate stimulation. Aneros: An easy-to-use prostate stimulator. nJoy Pure Plug: Anal plug that slides in and stays put. Vibrators take some of the manual labor out of masturbation by providing direct, intense physical stimulation. Some tried and true models: Fukuoku—fits over your finger, so you can still stroke, while getting an added buzz. Cock Rings add sensitivity by keeping blood flow in the penis.

sexreeducated:

Masturbation for Cis-Men

Most men learned early on that touching their penis is pleasurable. They may begin by rubbing it against things that feel good (like pillows and sheets) or simply begin stroking it - some men prefer additional lubrication some prefer a dry hand. The thing with hand jobs is that other than the fact that having another person perform a hand job on them, no one will ever do a hand job on a guy as good as they could do themselves. We don’t usually speak in generalities here but this seems to be a universal phenomenon. So, for all you women out there the best way to learn to do a great hand job on your man is to watch what he does to himself. There are so many nuances from person to person that it’s unimaginable. Hand position varies widely, along with speed, angle, and motion. Some prefer to stand up, some want to sit, some enjoy reclining. Position may depend on the situation.

The main thing we discovered about developing a “How To Male Masturbate” is that we simply cannot include all of the techniques we came across. Men are much more socialized towards their penises than women have been towards their vulvas for many, many years. It seems that because men learn to handle their penises to urinate and the penis is a sign of virility, male masturbation has been more reinforced in our culture than female masturbation. Therefore, they’ve had A LOT of time to develop hundreds of ways to masturbate. So, other than the basics we’ll just include a few trends here and let you personally explore the rest of them on your own…

Knowing the lay of the land is important.


Anatomy of the penis:

  • Glans: The head of the penis
  • Frenulum: The underside of the glans; ** the most sensitive part
  • Shaft: The length of the penis
  • Perineum: The area between the anus and the testicles
  • Testicles: Where sperm is made and stored for ejaculation.

To lube or not to lube?

Try it both ways and see what you like. Most men begin experimenting early on with hand lotion and soap in the shower. Do yourself a favor and graduate to one of the many amazing lubes out there. Maximus is a great thick lube for jerking off.

Masturbation Techniques

Full, single hand
Using a single fist is the most basic male masturbation technique. Simply wrap one entire fist around the shaft of the penis and begin stroking up and down.

Two Fists Together
This works especially well on men who have more length. Wrap both fists around the shaft and stroke up and down.

Two Fists Alternating
This variation used each hand one at a time but allows you to alternate. You can even experiment with one fist going up and the other down.

Two Finger Method
Many men who prefer to focus their stroking on the glans (head) of the penis prefer this method. Using just the thumb, pointer and ring finger from one hand rub the head of the penis vigorously.

Thumb and Finger Rings
Make little circles with your thumbs and ring fingers from both hands. Encircle around the penis and stroke up and down.

Male Masturbators

There are a great many different objects that you can thrust your penis into that will simulate penetrative intercourse. This can vary from toilet paper rolls to fruit (watermelon or cantaloupe). Other foods like the infamous apple pie from the movie “American Pie”. Rest assured that if you can think of it, it’s been done.

A slightly cleaner option is one of the many male masturbation toys on the market now.
Everything from the popular Head Honcho to the much-loved Fleshlight has been quite a hit with men when it comes to vaginal simulation.

Masturbation Variations

Intensify the experience by adding anal or prostate stimulation.

  • Aneros: An easy-to-use prostate stimulator.
  • nJoy Pure Plug: Anal plug that slides in and stays put.

Vibrators take some of the manual labor out of masturbation by providing direct, intense physical stimulation. Some tried and true models:

    • Fukuoku—fits over your finger, so you can still stroke, while getting an added buzz.
    • Cock Rings add sensitivity by keeping blood flow in the penis.

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psychofactz: More Facts on Psychofacts :)

psychofactz:

More Facts on Psychofacts :)

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I love all the questions I have been getting! Keep ‘em coming!

Anonymous asked: I'm currently TTC and I'm using an app on my phone to track my periods and ovulation days, as well as an ovulation predictor kit. According to the app, my ovulation day is tomorrow, but the OPK was negative this morning. Have I missed my chance or is it possible that I haven't ovulated yet? *I also have Endometriosis and am currently taking Vitex.

Well I am sorry but I am not sure what TTC means. But in terms of ovulation, apps can sometimes be horrible predictors. The best ways to figure out if you are ovulating are these ways. In the morning before you roll out of bed, check your temperature. There will be a noticeable drop in your average temperature when you ovulate. The next is check your saliva. All fluids in the body change during ovulation. Your saliva will look like a fern plant when looked at under a microscope. They actually sell tiny microscopes for this purpose. Lastly, pay attention to your panties. If you wear them at least. Vaginal secretions tell you so much about when you ovulate. You are ovulating when the mucus looks clear, thin, and is stretchy. Like this .

I hope I have been of service to you!

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Anonymous asked: Sometimes after sex, I feel the urge to urinate for days after. It's really the only symptom--is this caused by the condoms? Or because the sex is rough? I can't seem to find an answer anywhere. Thanks!

It could be possibly a UTI, Urinary Tract Infection. They can easily occur because of germs being pushed out of the vagina into the urethra or crawl up the urethra in the penis. Of course, there are maaannnyyyy other ways to get a UTI. Because of what you’re describing though, I would most likely think it is a UTI. Best bets are to drink lots of water and cranberry juice, make sure to go to the bathroom whenever you need to/frequently, (if you have a vagina) wipe front to back. Go see a doctor or clinician about it because they are medically trained to help as well. Thanks for the question!

Anonymous asked: What do you do if you love sombody with all your heart, but they dont make you happy all the time; or do alot of things that irritate you.

I know how that feels. I am not sure what advice to give you beyond these few tidbits.

  1. Communication! If they are doing things that irritate you, talk about it and think of ways it could be fixed/changed. Remember though, compromises are always better than one person getting their way.
  2. Thinking! Really think about your love for that person. Are they able to irritate you beyond belief and you still love them?

I hope these help!

nocturnallyabuzz asked: sorry did you mean to say a 97% and 99% chance of NOT getting pregnant on your last ask?

Yes! That the condoms work 97% of the time and that the pill works 99% of the time when used perfectly. My bad everyone!

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Anonymous asked: I'm on the pill, he always uses condoms. We're pretty safe from accidental pregnancy, right?

Definitely pretty safe! There is a 97% chance of not getting pregnant while using condoms (perfectly every time) and a 99% chance of not getting pregnant using the pill (again, perfectly). As long as you know how to for sure put on condoms as well as taking your pill, you are pretty darn safe. 

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